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Love need not be informed to all
"Why do you think like that.. we are just friends..". This is the common answer from many mouths, when they are asked about a person, with whom they were at the last seen place. The person who wanted to know about them is insulted by pointing out the way he thinks. When a man and woman of young ages is seen, the first thing the world thinks is that they are lovers. How can people not think like that? The world has made them think like that.
The world around is chanting the mantra of "love". The most nearest means of communication, television, movies and newspapers are all focusing on the point of love. Televisions and movies preach the concept of love in various ways. Hero sees heroine and falls in love. Heroine also sees the hero and falls in love. it happens instantly. before the movie finishes, the hero and heroine accept each others love and try to protect their love by rebelling against the world. In another scenario, two college friends feel that they cannot live without each other, and think that it is love, and behave as a true male and female. In another case a married man/women is shown as not satified with his partner and another girl/boy makes a difference, and thus they are in love.
These type of movies make an immediate and powerful impact on the way humans think. Based on the examples shown in movies, people think that love happens between any male and female. Youth, especially, by seeing such movies, believe in love at first sight. The person who looks beautiful or handsome to their eyes is thought of the person whom they are loving. Thus they are not able to differentiate between love and attraction.
It is all a big confusion created out there. Some people say that love is divine and just by seeing some one, love cannot start. Then how does the so called "love" gets started?
One of the person I know says, love doesn't have perfection as he/she did and people in this era are changing the meaning of love. To support the statement made, the person illustrates the people seen in back seats of movie theatres, people hiding behind the bushes in the park, couples seen in restaurant, etc. Thus, the person him/herself is thinking in the way, the other world is thinking. The person thinks that what he/she has experienced is what is called true love and others call attraction as love.
On the valentine's day, many news papers focused specially on valentines day. a girl/boy shopping in a greeting cards shop or buying flowers is picturised as being "commercial lovers" or "timepass lovers", without even knowing what they are. And married couple are shown as true lovers. Even then, many of the "married lovers" belong to different castes and are living seperately from their families, because they did not accept the marriage. As far as those people say, they had to rebell against their parents in protecting their love. If two people from different castes like each other and marry, is that what is called love? If they get away from their parents and start living seperately, does it mean they have 100% love?
Ok. Suppose marriage is thought as a conclusion for love, why is it a "conclusion"? Does love ends after marriage? Is there an end for love? Then what about those people, who get married without knowing each other, but start thinking of the well-being of their husband/wife? Even those people who aren't love married have problems. Having differences in understanding make them think that they have married a wrong person. Because they dont know each other, and think that the other person can never understand them. If they were lovers before, they would have surely understand each other. Really? Before people become lovers, they are unknown to each other. Then how are they able to develop their love?
Then what is love?
Isn't it the feeling that one should feel within self? Lovers don't need to prove the world that they love each other. It is a feeling that the person(s) have to feel internally. It depends only on those two and no one else. There is no rule that only one person can be considered as lover and loving more than one is not a love. It is a personal matter which those two have to understand.
Finally, for those who did not understand what I wanted to say,
1. Love need not be shown to all.
2. Love has to be felt by self
February 21, 08 @ 09:39 am.
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