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Life is common yaar
(fyi: opinion is mine, and might differ in others lives)
When we are kids we get the love from everyone. overwhelming. we feel complete. we dont feel taking anymore.
When we are in teenage, we try to lead life bindas. we are confident of acheiving anything. we just say no to everyone who proposes us and we think we are not in love. we think something good is waiting for us. we dont realise the value.
When we start career, we think we will have cute friend. who talks to us and makes us feel relaxed. we are in love because we want to be, not really.
After marriage, some days will be good. synchronization in thoughts and in love life, everything. slowly things start appearing strange. moods will change to fight. we demand our respects from each other.
Years passby and feel that we dont get love from each other. we have it, but cannot recognise it. we remember only the fights and differences but dont remember the happiness. because we have developed such a habit. we think marriage is not suitable for us. we dont trust each other. we think its good to be separate.
Everyone else looks happy except us. we see that everyone is in love, except us.
At that time, some one makes us feel relaxed. some one makes us laugh. we question ourself. am i in love with that person. am i doing right. then our partner looks disgusting. the other person becomes so special. we dont think wrong in taking another affectionate step.
One day, we realise what the real love is. we remember the happiness which over partner gave. we think to go back to our partner, but we cannot. we can, but we think we cannot. we think if we go back our partner will reject us. we dont realise that, after the rejection, thinking is going to make up the acceptance. we forget that it takes time. sometimes a little longer.
We leave the path of the relations to the time and we lead our lives. we learn to feel the smallest happiness of our life. we feel to care about our children. we give love to them. we make up their lives. we feel worried when we are rejected by them. we leave our children, we leave our relatives.
And finally on one great day, we leave our life. Another life.
in simple words. we start our life playing games, then we want to have someone for us, then we start searching for love. then we start fighting for our respect. then we start understanding the life, we start compromising. then we understand what love is, then we start feeling the love, then.. life is finished.
It is common yaar. it happens in everylife.
June 20, 09 @ 12:11 pm.

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