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Who told you to stop your studies?
I remember the day when i went for my first marriage looks. the bride was still studying and said many times that she was not willing to stop her studies. I wanted to ask her one question. "Who told you to stop your studies?". Ofcourse i could not ask her at that time, i was thinking what would have happened if i have asked her. ok let me screenplay my creativity and my mind views.
I will ask her "who told you to stop your studies? your parents or your relatives or your friends?" she will say some answer and she will ask me why. Then i will tell, "there are three reasons why people suggest or scare you to stop your studies.
1) If it is your parents, they feel that if you study much, then you will try to be independant and might not be interested to live with your husband as you will be confident in going out and finding a job. If you will not study much, then you have to depend on your husband. thus, even if you fight with your husband you will not leave him, as you are not independant.
2) if it is your relatives, they feel that you might be attracted to some other guy in your college and your husband will leave you. they dont want their relative to be badly named in such case.
3) if it is your friends, they strongly suggest that you should study and be indepandant. because depending on others is not what youth wants. if you take divorce, you should be able to go out and look for a job and survive yourself."
then some one will ask, "why are you so concerned about divorce conditions before marriage" I will pause for a moment and turn to the bride and tell her that "there are two kinds of people. one, who will be silent till the other person completes his statement. two, who interrupts the speaking person and declares his views to become popular. any way i will justify my statement. to pass a 10th class examination, you should be concerned about maths a lot. because its a bottle neck subject and passing it is a big thing. similarly people who are getting married are thinking for ways, not to get divorced.
a man wants a wife who will be in a home, (ofcourse, that is almost impossible in this generation) because after working for a whole day he comes back to home. When his wife comes with a cup of coffee and sits besides him and talk a few affectionate words, the man will feel relaxed. if it is a working wife, and husband asks her a coffee, she will ask to make it for himself and also give her a cup too. because she will be frustrated with the work in her office.
second, a man feels that his woman is attracted to someone else in her office. man can share any thing but not the love.. then everything appears artificial to him. and this leads to divorce. which is not what he wants."
then her parents will ask, "then you should have opted for a girl, who has already completed her studies. and why do you need a bcom girl in particular?" then i will say, "a bcom girl knows how to make a budget and can think about necessities of a family much more than a normal girl. plus, man will not be able to make the home budget because he will be thinking about his work rather than other things. and woman can handle things in a better and effective way. even a boss will have a lady as his secretary, because ladies can manage things better. if it is combined with an economic sense, what else is needed. "
after telling that "her" people will think i am a hero and i will be so popular among them. they will only look for a good girl for me. hmm.. the screenplay looks good, but it would work even better when this conversation happens in reality.
November 10, 07 @ 08:59 pm.
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